My journey to motherhood was quite different than my expectations. No baby shower, no feeling the baby kicking at night, no making it to my third trimester, no gorgeous maternity photos. Instead, it was filled with anxiety and uncertainty, ironically, a lot of what we are experiencing in the world right now. It was only by the grace of God that I remained hopeful and steady throughout, even when I had a moment or two of breakdowns where I just had to let it out.
Even today, my experience as a mother differs quite a bit from many others. Mine is filled with trach changes, putting g-tubes back in, ordering and administering medication, ordering medical supplies, and keeping track of many doctors’ visits. It sounds like a lot, but I am grateful for it. Every day, I get to be the mom of a miracle. I look into my son’s eyes and am consistently in awe of how amazing he is and how much I never imagined him getting to this point. My focus has always been the present and while I knew he would grow and develop, I have tried not to let myself think too much about it as a way of not placing unrealistic pressure on him or myself as a mom.
Yesterday, we received some amazing news: Emerson’s decannulation will be on July 7th! Yes, the trach is coming out! I am so filled with emotions that I don’t know what to do. When I think about all that he has endured and overcome, I just thank God for creating this strong little boy and choosing me to be his mommy.
Lately, I have been struggling a bit with recognizing that the issues you experience as a preemie mom do not always stop when you leave the hospital. For us, there have been many hurdles after that, and while more recently, our focus is on the huge hurdle of eating, knowing that his trach will be coming out soon gives me comfort. It reminds me that we, as his parents, have done and are doing our best. He is developing at the rate that is best for him, and I am so proud. This journey hasn’t been the easiest, but it’s one that I am so grateful for. I have grown in ways I never could have imagined. 💜
6 thoughts on “Preemie Mommy Reflections & Amazing News”
This is such amazing news!! Thanks for sharing Marshall’s :). Praise God!
I’m so happy for him! I love following your journey! 🥰🥰🥰 Stay safe
I was about to cry and the phone rang. You are wonderful, loving parents! Blessings as we approach July!
I am so happy for your family!!! Thank you so much for sharing your journey with Emerson, it is truly remarkable to watch God work in your life..
You guys are GREAT parents to a GREAT son Jehovah has blessed you with! I’m so happy!
I’m so pleased to hear the great news of the decannulation for my great nephew, you both are doing an awesome job with him, I remember going through this same situation with my brother’s daughter who’s now 24…God got you all covered I will continue praying for all the blessings coming your way, much love to you all. 🥰❤️😍